Question 1 :What first triggered your interest in the BDSM scene?
My interest in BDSM had always been an unrecognized attribute within my early life. I first came about it as a Profession when I realized what it was in the early noughties, this was a culmination of events. Firstly I was running my own business importing lingerie and sex-toys from China, then distributing them retail in the UK via my own website. This is how I came across bondage equipment and BDSM paraphernalia. Combined with a episode of CSI, where a Dominatrix (Lady Heather) is introduced to the program as a murder happens at her fetish club. Yes, this sounds very cliché and definitely ironic, it was the mainstream media introduction which stirred My passion. Throughout My life, even in childhood , I have always been very assertive and I was very much into playing dress up and tormenting poor boys. Once I realized that this is one of My many strengths, I started studying the art of BDSM and each day I learn something new about this scene.
Question 2 : How did you come about your name Mistress Juliette De Sade?
When I first looked into BDSM I researched the concept of Fetishism, Sadism and Masochism. This is where I came across the etymology of both a sadist and a masochist. Giving Me an understanding of the terminology and their place within the BDSM scene. It seemed only natural that given Marquis De Sade was the influence and visionary behind Sadism, I honoured His namesake. I reviewed the books which included females names and found Juliette more fitting as She was the perpetrator of inflicting pain and tormenting, unlike Justine who was the recipient. Hence the name; Mistress Juliette De Sade
Question 3 : How did you receive professional training?
It took Me several attempts to get My foot in the door for professional training. Having contacted several Mistresses to find the doors closed, I spent a while training in Chester with a very glamorous Mistress. This Lady, taught Me a good deal regarding Cross Dressing and Feminization. I thoroughly enjoyed this, though I longed for the more intense and severe side of Domination. I also spent a few weeks training at The Manchester Dungeon, due to the location being near the Chester premises I decided it was a conflict of interest to train at the two locations. I then looked to find a place which combined the pleasure, pain and glamour aspect for My traning. I have a very strong gut and the thought of piercing a penis quiet turned Me on (I actually love the site of blood). So I ventured onto pastures new, I looked around at several sites. Vetted the forums for feedback. This was when I came across The Slave Academy and both of the most raved about Mistresses; Mistress Valeska and Mistress K. The forums were rife with nothing but praise and I approached them both……… My training came along from there, I also spent a substantial amount of time reading and studying BDSM in My own time. The rest, I would happily say, is history.
Question 4 : Mistress Alex: Do you feel empowered whilst dealing with a slave ?
Due to the natural assertiveness throughout My life in general, I do not feel a surplus amount of empowerment when dealing with My slaves. If I am with a slave I may enhance My natural assertiveness and emphasize a controlled amount of aggression (if this is a preference of the slaves). Though I do acknowledge and appreciate that a Cross Dresser may wish only to be pseudo emasculated and feminized with a softened voice, purely humiliating him as oppose to being shouted at and abused. This is an appreciation that each bottom/slave/sub etc has different requirements, therefore My empathetic approach is much more appropriate rather than a self-indulgent empowerment in every situation.
Question 5 : Do you have a favourite form of SM play?
I would love to say I do, but My personality favours variety and there are many forms which get Me trembling at the knee with sheer excitement. I adore Cross Dressing and Feminization. I am a qualified Make-up artist and also hairstylist, I love all things girly and to be able to transform a ‘manly-man’ into a beautiful pageant princess literally glows My heart. Contrasted by the prospects of strapping her down on My whipping horse, ripping her tights off, dragging her pink panties down and thrusting My strap on in and out of her ass, equally kicking in My euphoria. I particularly like when I meet a slave and they come with little high expectations, then we find within a year, their progress has come on leaps and bounds. This is a proud moment for Me. For My slave to have experienced just the thinnest of urethral sound in his penis and 12 months later to be on the largest in My kit can trigger the same elation. I suppose in that sense you could decipher that to being that My favourite form of play is monitoring the performance and progression of My slaves. Encouraging them to push boundaries and identify and achieve their desires.
Question 6 : I notice that you have several websites on the internet. What is the reason behind this?
This is a very good question Mistress Alex. The reason for this is due to My understanding of how websites are used and also to appeal to a wide audience. I hold a BA Degree in Multimedia, I choose this discipline as I felt that this would best assist My work as a Professional Dominatrix. I own and control every single site which I have on the internet and when I was located in Manchester I had a site for this area too. Due to Myself being re-located in Huddersfield and sessioning in London too, I have diverted My Manchester site to be optimized for Huddersfield. Therefore I have 2 sites for Huddersfield, 2 for London (One is a flash site for the more up-to date users) and I also have a comprehensive blog… www.memoirs-of-a-dominatrix.co.uk.
Each and every one of My sites states that it is Mistress Juliette De Sade. By no-means is this a way of tricking any of the slaves, it is merely a well-thought out and well-executed intricate campaign. I shall also be starting a membership site, this will come about within the next 6 months. I am currently looking for suitable slaves to film. If this is of interest to anyone, feel free to email (firstname.lastname@example.org) or call Myself.
Question 7 : What websites do you have on the internet?
Here goes, so far I have :
www.ukpremier-mistress.com (London HTML)
www.rubber-fetish-mistress.com (London Flash)
Question 8 : You recently relocated are you enjoying your new chambers ?
Yes, finally I have My very own premises. To say I am excited about this is an understatement Mistress Alex. It has been a lot of work, which I have put into this, and the work continues as I am always thriving for individuality. It is a well-equipped premises, I have a variety of BDSM paraphernalia, Cross Dressing gear, CP implements and I shall also be catering for Adult Baby Minding. I also have electro-play devices and the large items compromise of the usual; a cross, 6ft x 6ft dungeon craft piece with cage (full length cage for extended bondage sessions)and bench, whipping horse, throne and also facilities for over-nights and prolonged stays.
New products are being brought regularly and this will commence until the day I stop, I believe you can never have enough of a good thing. This premises will also be used for filming for My new membership site which I shall be creating once I have the premises in an order which I am content with.
Question 9 : Submissives can come and visit you in Huddersfield and London is that correct?
As You just mentioned Mistress Alex, I am available in both Huddersfield and Central London. Both premises are fully equipped and equally as charming. I also offer out-call sessions too (Strictly BDSM orientated), this can be throughout the UK or International. There is, of course, terms and conditions to this. Such as ample notification, a required length for the session and a deposit via a bank transaction in some cases. This is solely to ensure My safety.
Question 10 : Do you have any tips for slaves approaching you?
Be yourself then, and only then, will I be able to distinguish if you are the type of person, which I can session with. There is no such thing as wrong or right in this instance, if the chemistry is not there, I will not waste yours or My time and exhaust you out of money. I session as I thoroughly enjoy this not simply for the monetary value. I consider loyalty and honesty as a much more substantial currency, you can’t buy that and that is top on My list of priorities. Finally I shall accentuate that you are to respect Myself…… the first occurrence of this is composed of respecting yourself………… Food for thought. What satisfaction would I get from flogging a dead horse after all?