Tied 'n' Teased

Mistress Olga of Manchester

Diary of a Domme
Highlights of January & February 2011

Welcome to my diary, or more accurately excerpts from it.  I’m Journerotica, a Domme (and general kinkster!).  In 2010 I set off on something of a journey of sexual discovery, and as that year drew to a close I found my natural role – that of a Domme.  I’m not a pro, I’m just a normal(ish) woman who enjoys being served by submissive men.  This diary is something of an insight into my world as I experience and discover more of the joys of Domination.

The first couple of months of this year were pretty busy – I played with a number of subs, tried a vanilla threesome and foursome, got shown how to do Japanese style bondage by a local Dom, was served by a sub couple and met a sub who has since become mine.  Rather than give a few scant details of each, here are some of the best bits from my diary…

Take Two

Towards the end of last year I had played with a couple of subs, and I decided to start the new year as I meant to go on with a rather more imaginative scene.  I had a venue and found myself a sub… who managed to arrive so late I’d given up and retreated to the sofa with a glass of wine and some trashy tv.  So instead of being cuffed, hooded and driven to a mystery location for an evening of use and abuse, he got a drink in my local before having his undeserving cock strapped into a hollow strap on for some frustration as I decided I would have a living dildo for the evening.

Thankfully I had a backup for my original plan in the form of B, a sub who had served me before.  Wet met in a car park.  Once he’d got in the front of my car, I handed him a hood.  Part way there, once the car had warmed up, I pulled off into a dark car park and ordered him to strip, giving him a short, simple dress and tights to put on.  The idea was that this would make him feel a bit slutty while at the same time meaning he had some clothes to keep on as it was snowing.  Then I handed him a small string of anal beads.
We drove on until I got to the destination and pulled in.  I didn’t give him a torch, so all he could do was follow me into the dark forest as we strode further from the car, before arriving at a rusty door.  Stepping in it was immediately warmer, and we walked in until we reached a wooden structure, radiating out just asking to have a sub attached to it.  I got him out of the jacket and leggings, put a chain around his neck and tied his arms out, and went to prepare the area.

I got ready, and then we played.  The main pleasure was really the dramatic feeling of the whole place.  Things like appearing to set lube on fire in front of B before putting some on his ass, lighting a match and letting him feel sudden heat over him were rather more dramatic than they would otherwise be.  I hope for a split second he wondered whether I was about to or had set the lube alight – of course was I had set fire to in his vision wasn’t lube and what I put on him was, the heat being a sudden splash of candle wax and no fire.  I need a little bit more practise with fire play before I use it in anger, though one day soon I will.

There was one slightly shocking moment for both of us – I was holding onto a rusty metal strut to support me as I stood over B’s face for some worship.  Suddenly it inverted, going from being curved away to curved towards me.  It wasn’t enough for me to fall but enough to give us a shock, and B a face full of rust…

A Sub Couple and Me

A  male sub, T, and a female friend of his came round, both to sub to me. It was the first time I had ever Dommed a couple. I had two main limits to work with, T doesn’t do anal play and the girl was straight, so I could do what I wanted to her but she wouldn’t give me oral. Fair enough.

Now, I wasn’t about to ignore the opportunities the dynamic presented. T knows about tying, and can also happily do things to the girl. And the girl trusted T enough to trust me by extension, even though he wasn’t going to be in control of the goings on.

I left a fabric hood under the flap of my letter box, door on the latch. T hooded the girl outside the front door and let them both inside, leaving a bag of spare rope and cameras in the hall for me to collect and leading her into the bathroom. There he tied a chest harness on her, hands behind her back, as I’d instructed, and let her into the hall.

I went and collected her, led her through to the play space. I had set up a rope overhead with a running stopper knot on it – push the knot and it moves, pull the clip under the knot and it holds. So I can move it easily, whoever happens to be attached to it can’t. I secured her harness up to it, and tied her ankles together. Then touched and examined her for a while.

Soon I heard T come out the bathroom, and I went to get him. Sure enough he had followed his instructions and was waiting blindfolded wearing just a crotch rope, with some rope tails hanging from his balls. It was an interesting way to lead someone around!

The focus for the session was very much on tie and tease. As normal I wont go into full detail. I started with T lying on a chest, and she sucked him while I face sat him and poured some candle wax. I then sat him up. The plan here had been to tie her sitting with his cock in her, but the angles weren’t going to work in practice, so I amused myself by pegging his nipples. Then it was back to him lying so she could sit on him and I could face sit him some more.

For my last trick I put a dildo gag on him and moved him to lie on the floor. I then tied her so she was kneeling with the dildo in her, while I teased his tied cock and occasionally used a magic wand vibrator on her clit. It ended with a very strong orgasm for T and much wiggling and groaning for her.

It was a fun evening. It wasn’t the longest play, not everything went as planned but it was a really good taster into playing with a couple – what works, what doesn’t. So I’m keen to do more!

Fun with a Newbie

A guy had emailed me explaining he was essentially looking to explore, and one of the things he wanted to try was being sub. As interesting kinky newbies are fun to play with we got talking, and yesterday evening we met.

After having a couple of drinks at my local we were both still keen, so headed back to my place. Unfortunately my cunning plan to hood him in the corridor was somewhat thwarted by a rather faffy man wandering around the place, so I had to put up with the loss of surprise and bring him inside.

I had wanted to start with a bit of sensory deprivation for two reasons. First off it’s just plain fun, but also it gave me a chance to get changed into something a bit sexier. I put a new faux-leather hood on D, and sat him in a chair. I tied his wrists together, securing them above his head, and tied his ankles to the chair legs. Then left him for a while with just the occasional touch.

The big downside to a full hood is that it doesn’t give me any mouth access. I had intended to tape his eyes clothes before putting on the hood but had managed to forget with the change of plan, so when I was ready I stood behind him, took it off and put a blindfold on.

I can’t remember exactly what happened when (and as I’m currently somewhere quite public wont review the photos to find out!), but as well as general teasing I got him to lick me to orgasm, plugged him, tied his cock and balls, teased him, drilled wax on his arse and put pegs on his nipples (capturing enough skin that is wasn’t too painful).

After a break for dinner, wine and chat (having not let him cum as I wanted him to still be raring to go) I tied him to the bed and had some more teasing fun. Then I let him loose and we just had some more straightforward sex. All in all, a really fun night (and a rather pleasant morning to boot).

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A Sub… My Sub

A new sub came to see me, potentially to become my sub.  I put the spandex hood on him, who I call D,  outside the front door and led him inside, told him to strip. I had two new bits of hardware I wanted to try – a new bondage point that was strong enough for suspension (although I wasn’t planning to suspend him just yet), and a board to act as a bigger top for my wooden chest that would give a much wider range of positions. I also had a new flogger that I was really looking forward to trying. All of these had meant my Saturday had included some rather strange activities – giving the suspension point a good test in my climbing harness, whacking myself with a flogger and trying various positions on the chest. Thankfully I did remember to close the curtains!

Getting back to D, to start I tied his wrists in front of him then took them up above his head, and secured his ankles to a spreader. I proceeded some fun spanking, flogging, whipping with a crop, teasing and touching. The flogger was really nice to play with – depending on where I let the tails flick it produced different sensations from thuddy to stingy, and it was also a really nice weight.

Once I’d had enough of tormenting D while he was standing, including sliding in some anal beads, I put the isolation hood on him and laid him down on the chest. I started off tying his thighs to his calves, and his wrists down across his chest. But gradually as we played I tied him down more, eventually having to break out the jute rope when I ran out of hemp. He’s more of a wriggler than any other sub I’ve had! Actually he’s generally very reactive to things but in a way that seems very natural which makes him a joy to play with. Some pegs, candle wax, teasing and sensation play later I decided we had played long enough and took his hood off, gave him a drink and untied him. Just as I did so he started to shake so I timed it just right.

It took D a while to come down from the experience – although I hadn’t allowed him to orgasm, and he’d been holding it off for 8 days prior to our meeting as per my instructions to him, he described his feelings as being very similar to after a strong orgasm. It makes sense, as endorphines would have been flooding his body.

Later that night we played some more and I told him he could cum. The strange thing was, by this point he was so programmed not to it just wasn’t happening. In the end I held his nose and mouth repeatedly as he worked on himself, and he orgasmed in a pretty explosive fashion as I was stopping him from breathing. It’s the first time I’ve done any kind of breath play and I really enjoyed it, as it’s a massive power trip not just in itself but in that he trusted me with that level of control.

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