Before I begin please forgive my possible Ignorance and naivety with regards to the beautiful ‘Art’ of Dominance. I am a novice in this, and do not quite know what actual ‘Fetish’ I favour. What would you recommend would be the best way to realise my dream of indulging in my Fetish fantasies? Though I sometimes favour the pain element, I need your experienced advice on how to ‘Unleash’ the Devil inside, so to speak.
My oh My, you are in a predicament aren’t you, being a Submissive myself the best advice I can offer is to ‘Respectfully’ request your chosen Mistress if she would be willing to take you in hand and explore your fetishes and needs during a few Lengthy Sessions, I think as with anything in life it’s always best to give anything a chance before you decide where your fetish fantasies lie. An alternative would be to watch a Good Quality DVD that explores many Fetishes so that you know what you are going to ask of Your Mistress, because Ultimately Mistresses hate Time Wasters!! Or maybe you are just Begging for A Flogging.
I am what I would class as a Straight man, but of late I am having fantasies where I am sucking other Men’s Cocks and really enjoying it, especially when they cum all over my face, I am fantasising about this more and more and am getting to the point where I am masturbating daily, do you think it is strange to feel like this? I am getting increasingly tempted to make contact with somebody to make this fantasy a reality, what would you suggest would be the best way of making this happen? I am desperate to suck something big and hard!
There is such an easy solution to your predicament, as most Mistresses will have a ‘Live in’ slave who would be more than willing to let you suck their Member. But be clear that once you have indulged once your need will probably become greater, I would always recommend safety first, so visiting a well established Mistress would be the best way of achieving this, and don’t forget to Thank her for the Honour! You will probably want to explore further with the fantasy and maybe don a pair of Lacy Knickers while Indulging!
My husband and I have recently discovered that we would like to introduce a ‘Domme’ to our mundane sex life, though we would really prefer to have her concentrate more on me, God that sounds so selfish! Do you really think this could pep up our flagging sex life or do you think he could get insanely jealous watching me get spanked and abused by a beautiful Goddess, because if I’m quite honest the thought of what she could do for me makes me really not give a damn what he thinks.
Most Mistresses are quite happy to Domme Females, but would you not get just a little pleasure in seeing your husband taking a little punishment too, maybe with a rather large Black Strap On – Just a Thought! Though I totally see where you are coming from, I myself have a Penchant for a Beautiful Mistress, I am sure that you will come to some equally satisfying arrangement and you may find that if he sees Mistress satisfying you he will try even harder to satisfy you.
I am desperate for my partner to use a strap-on during sex but she seems really averse to the suggestion and won’t even slip a finger in, even though I have told her that it would be amazing for me, is there any way that I can convince her to just try it once, she is quite submissive but I think that she could really enjoy being in control of me, I am getting so tempted to call a Mistress just to abuse me, but would really prefer my partner to do it. Please Help!
Patience is a virtue, women are sometime averse to Anal play because they may feel that their ‘Man’ has got gay tendencies, but this is not the case the prostrate when stimulated correctly can be an absolutely amazing sensation for men, I would suggest maybe introducing some toys to the bedroom, like a small Vibrating Butt plug, something that she will feel comfortable using on you and when she sees how much you are enjoying the experience she may just shock you one day and turn up with a huge cock strapped to her! Obviously if this doesn’t materialise Mistress will be more than happy to accommodate you and as always discretion is key.
Please may I through the letters page of the wonderful magazine write a thank-you letter to Madam Beverely.
Thank you Madam Beverley for allowing me the privilege that you granted for me to enter your domain to serve and obey you on Friday. It was an honour to be in the presence of such a beautiful dominant Goddess. You are so beautiful in your advertisement photographs but in person, you are truly a Goddess.
From the moment you snapped your fingers and said in your alluring voice “OBEY ME” I was completely under your control. The cock, ball and nipple torture that you administered to me was the most severe that I have ever received, but it was a pleasure to be so abused by you. I had so much faith in you Madam Beverley that at no time did I think about saying the safe word as this would have spoilt my enslavement to you.
Since I live in Scotland and your chambers are in Blackburn, it restricts the number of times that I am able to ask your permission to be your slave. It is difficult to find such a fantastic Mistress like you and I feel guilty that I am not able to humbly serve you more often. I am so sure that with your guidance you could turn me into an obedient slave of the highest quality, worthy to serve and obey you. Madam Beverley, you are an intelligent, beautiful, dominant, stunning Goddess and it was an honour and privilege to serve and obey you.
Your humble slave,
Everyone has their own Fetish and mine is an underwater fetish, that appears to be unusual to some people but I sometimes find their fetish choice strange.
I love being underwater and holding my breath. Maybe there is a breath play thing going on here? I wonder if anyone else has a similar interest?
For a moment, I thought you said underwear and I thought what’s unusual about that, but underwater, this must be a first for TNT? – Jane.
I noticed recent suggestions regarding a central register of slaves, very interesting, but I am curious as to how many slaves are happy to admit to their Mistress that they go to other Mistresses. OK slaves, do you prefer your Mistress to believe you are entirely faithful (in an S/M sense of course) to her or do you think it would detract from your relationship if she knew you visited other Mistresses, particularly local Mistresses?
Mistress Anna of Brighton
Dear Mistress Anna,
I do think that ‘lists’ of this nature are doomed from the start because they are so open to abuse, you almost would need to be Soloman to police such a list. For example, if a Mistress simply ‘fell out’ with a slave, she could ask for him to be struck off and without proper consideration, do you think that would be fair or not?
Another basket of snakes I fear this one will become?