I write to complain about an annoying and common problem (judging by other annoyed Mistresses/Masters’ letters and my own experiences). I would really like my letter printed to get this message across, yet again!!
It’s the problem of persons who withhold their telephone number and timewasters again I’m afraid Jane!! I have no other choice now than to refuse to answer calls from withhelds, all due to timewasters, nuisance and hoax callers.Don’t some people realise that there are special sex and domination phone lines for them to get their rocks off. It annoys me that they do it at my expense and with my precious time!!
It’s a shame I have resorted to such measures, especially if a person is genuinely calling to serve me.
I do understand that some subs want to keep anonymous, if so, make it clear you do not wish to be contacted on this line. This is all about trust.I automatically cancel numbers when they’ve called me. Unless it is safe to do so (i.e I have asked if that number is discreet for me to contact them on). I will not contact them by that number. I ask for a discreet number, just for emergencies (i.e if I have to cancel the appointment for whatever reason. I always inform the sub If I need to cancel. It’s common decency. Which is obviously lacking in some people).
Some subs go to great lengths to waste my time and it is so unrespectful, time consuming and annoying.
The regular perpetrators know who they are. I hope you’re ashamed of yourselves.
Dear Mistress Victoria,
Ever since the introduction of the CLI (Calling Line Identifier) and the ability of the caller to withold it, it has been a bone of contention. I do agree that 8 out of 10 people who withold their number do have something to hide and will possibly turn out to become time-wasters and almost all genuine callers do not withhold their number. However as you say it is a matter of trust and that is very much a 2-way street. I am sure that some people think if they withhold their number they won’t get calls from Mistress! – What do you think readers?
I noticed recent suggestions regarding a central register of slaves, very interesting, but I am curious as to how many slaves are happy to admit to their Mistress that they go to other Mistresses.
OK slaves, do you prefer your Mistress to believe you are entirely faithful (in an S/M sense of course) to her or do you think it would detract from your relationship if she knew you visited other Mistresses, particularly local Mistresses?
Mistress Anna of Brighton
Dear Mistress Anna,
I do think that ‘lists’ of this nature are doomed from the start because they are so open to abuse, you almost would need to be Soloman to police such a list. For example, if a Mistress simply ‘fell out’ with a slave, she could ask for him to be struck off and without proper consideration, do you think that would be fair or not? Another basket of snakes I fear this one will become?
In reply to Master Roberts problem with K, insulting his slave helper K, your attitude and behaviour is not tolerated. You are, and have to be said, an offensive individual who should learn to keep his (her?) mouth shut until they are spoken to. If you think, for one minute that you are going to get away with this sort of behaviour, then think again. Either you are an “outsider” or slave, either way, your descriptions of helper, Master Robert’s slave are not wanted. Stephanie, you deserved what you got! You treated those around you with disrespect and contempt. I hope your Mistress keeps a slave in the form of mincing pony! You deserve a good caning for your misbehaviour. Beginner sub, you are leaving but remember to do as you are told.
By the way Jane, underwater fetish is not an unknown fetish, as practised by Member 1819. In the USA, this fetish is well supported by mermaid bars (girls as mermaids, swimming around in tanks in a bar, etc). There is a dark side to this fetish, so be warned. Yes, Member 1900, you can find fetish like clothes, etc, in other normal outlets but be careful when doing this sort of thing. You can fall foul of the law.
It is worth noting that these letters pages are a forum where members can air their views. However, those views are not necessarily those of the publishers. Anyone mentioned by anyone in these letters pages does have a right of reply – so get replying!
I seem to have a problem, my 7 ½ inch penis problem, I just can’t appear to have “full penis cover rights”. I’ve a lot of difficulty with CFNM (clothed female naked male).
When I was a student at College, I was really down on my money when a girlfriend called Martia offered to pay me for some photos of me if I agreed to pose in the nude. I really did need the cash so I agreed with a little reluctance. We got back to my flat and Martia got her camera out and began to take some photos of me as I slowly took off my red ‘T’ shirt, trainers, socks and then my jeans, leaving me wearing just my small yellow tanga undies while Martia took some more photos of me. Then she asked me to take the things ALL THE WAY OFF and I agreed, covering my penis and testicles with my hands as I pulled the small garment off my young body. Martia then took some more shots of me before she asked me to take my hands away from my genitals.
Reluctantly I agreed, exposing my big erection to her and my testicles. Martia took a few more photos before reloading her camera. I then covered myself up but then she took more control over me and tied both of my hands behind my back, leaving me totally powerless to cover my penis and testicles, she then took loads of lewd and explicit photos of me…it was ever so humiliating but at least after all this, I did get paid.
More recently, I was in hospital said to be suffering from stress. I’m not sure that was the real reason though. I was given some medication and after that my heart started to race rather quickly and one of the two sexy young nurses watching me just smiled and said “things will be OK as long as you co-operate…” I think I knew that she meant I was just going to have to; have to S T R I P off or get a heart attack and die… my heart was really racing now, not only were there two nurses present but also a couple of female patients. I just did not know what to do…I was confined in there no place to go to”. Just get on with it” said one of the nurses, “It’ll be bad for you if you don’t”.
It was now about 10.30pm so I nervously began to get ready for bed, removing my outer clothes down to my white sloggi briefs, then I got into bed, but my heart was really racing like crazy, it was getting faster, faster and faster, so nervously I got out of bed and then pulled off my briefs in front of the watching nurses and patients, It was so humiliating as I ran about the hospital totally naked for what seemed like ages.
More recently, I’ve found getting a good girlfriend rather hard for some reason. I’ve started to write letters to girls with a clothed picture at first, but then they write back asking to see more of me so I then send out a totally nude photo or two of me. This seems to satisfy them but I’ve yet to get a new good long term relationship.
I suppose I have to admit to you that after all these experiences I am rather sub and if you want a nude picture of me I will comply with your wishes. Perhaps I should try harder to be more respectable and to stay clothed but every once in a while I appear to be overpowered.
It seems to me that you are quite happy to show yourself up (or off)! What do you think readers?