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There are many good people in our world. There are also people in our world that need…well, a little fine tuning. Hey, I am a Domina! So here is a list of a few of my not so favourite scene things.

1. Dishonesty
When presenting a Fem Dom background to potential real-life partners, on line contact should not be described as a ‘two year relationship with a dominant woman.’ Once tied up and bent over my couch it is not a good time to tell me that contrary to what you’ve said previously that you’ve never been hit with a flogger before! This is the least of the nonsense I have been subjected to. Like finding out about a so called ex wife who just happens to be living under the same roof as their spouse, presumably because they have no idea that they are separated. This is unfortunately typical of the crap that some people who live through the box of their pc and who couldn’t care less about wasting my time have tried to mess me about with. Oh and ‘extra large’ does not equate to five and a half inches! View full article »

My first visit to a true Mistress could not have prepared me for the exquisite torture of pleasure of pain that I was about to experience, I am referring to my Mistress a truly stunning lady in every way.

Upon arrival at her residence I was greeted by Mistress herself and led into a beautifully appointed lounge, whereupon I was offered a much needed glass of wine, we then sat comfortable upon her Chesterfield where Mistress proceeded to interview me to see if I would be suitable material to serve her as a slave.

As we talked, I could feel my trepidation and fears slipping away (I could not have imagined the pleasures that lay ahead). It was during the interview that I made my first mistake of the session, I made a joke at the Mistress questioning, a mistake that I would pay for with extra lashes in our session so be warned Madam forgets nothing. View full article »

Why Is Fetish?

Can we ever unveil the mystery of fetishism? In some ways I wonder if we should ever want to. That mystery is part of what I like about it. However, there is pure fascination in making such an enquiry. Why does my heart pound when I see a man kneeling before me, collared and shackled in chains, as he lowers his eyes to show he’s overwhelmed by my power, and when I stare into his face his begging eyes beseech me to take him and stop causing him pain, and yet a part of him yearns to take more? In fact, I am excited whenever a power exchange such as this occurs. Even the look of the clothes that symbolise the authority figures that control such a power exchange, arouses me. View full article »

Despite this being the 21st century, there is regrettably still confusion about what BDSM is about in the world at large. The common misconception in peoples mind who are not familiar with the scene when they hear words such as “sadist” or “masochist” is to associate these terms with people who are violent or disturbed. S/m terms are often misappropriated, especially by anti pornography propagandists, to differ sharply from their significance to BDSM people. View full article »

The James Bond exhibition at the Imperial War Museum was ideal if you have male descendants of an appropriate age. Details of Fleming’s wartime intelligence activities were fascinating and dig this from a hippy era movie poster – “Far Up! Far Out! Far More!”

Manuscript fetishists were well catered for. Seeing that Fleming had crossed out ‘But’ at the beginning of a sentence and inserted ‘However’ gave me a thrill as I often do this. (“Yes, except he’s sold about five hundred million more copies. And he’s immortal.” “Well, I’m still alive. So there.”)

According to a new biography, Fleming was fond of soothing beaten bottoms with cold, wet towels. He beat his wife with canes, slippers and hairbrushes, occasionally receiving (as a gentleman should). View full article »