Is a dominant born or made? I have no idea and wonder if these assertions can ever be proved one way or the other. I feel my sexuality is a mixture of inherited and created. For me, being dominant is not such about what I do, but what I am. However, without someone to be in a relationship with, it is not possible to demonstrate my dominance. Therefore, it is more accurate to say that it is a part of me that emerges when I interact with a submissive male who has consented to this treatment. I repressed my nature for a number of years, but once my dominance was awakened there was a sense of a deeply felt, inner conviction. My Dominance has matured and blossomed over the years, in much the same way that submissive natures do. View full article »