A very beautiful, professional Dominatrix was asked, in an interview, what it takes to make a Domina. She offered hints and tips under these headings:
Don’t be short;
Make space in your wardrobe;
Shop at B&Q;
Stand up straight;
Always keep the Dettox handy.
I presume she has her tongue firmly in her cheek, because this sounds so clinical. I see things rather differently……!
You can of course be any height to dominate, and in fact some submissive males would prefer the smaller, petite Domina to emphasise the situation being about feminine control of the mental kind, rather than anything to do with pure physical strength. Whatever your preference in this regard dominance has, in reality, very little to do with appearance and a great deal to do with inner disposition, technical ability, being a theoretician, artistry, flair and experience of life.
Making space in your wardrobe presumes that one is financially able to expand into fetish attire. That is not possible for everyone and should not count against someone with an interest in this area. Or perhaps she intends to hang a slave in it?!! View full article »