Tag Archive: readers letters


Dear Jane,
Regarding your article on Dominance and what it is. How You seem to just grasp the subject and make it seem so transparent and simple. At every paragraph i was echoing in my mind words like yes, spot on, Shes nailed it, exactly what I was thinking but could not possibly express in such a meaningful way.

Your openess in describing the type of Dominant that You are is refreshing and honest and believe me when I say that as erotic as the ownership and Dominance of a male slave is to You, even the thoughts of being in that collar and knowing that the duties that go along with it is every bit as fulfilling for the slave. Knowing that one must be available to the Marquise in any and every way that She sees fit, awaiting Her commands that will be obeyed without question and constantly seeking and looking to see if there is any way that Her comfort could be optimised is enough to make my blood course at high speed.

Your point about society’s ideals and what constitutes a man will have resonance to every male submissive who will all have felt that way somewhere along the line of realising their inner cravings. Such inner turbulence can be frustrating and extreme cases destructive I’m sure but at least through Your writings, and thoughts it will not cause such tribulations to any sub male that has had the honour of being in Your presence or who has read Your insightful thoughts. View full article »

Dear Jane,
I am in dire need of your advice!!! I have a beautiful girlfriend at home, but our sex life is just non-existent, however that isn’t really the main issue, I love Cock! Although I do not perceive myself as being gay, there is nothing I like more than visiting massage parlours and the like and indulging in the ‘Glory Holes’, my ultimate fantasy would be an all male gang bang. How do I come to terms with what I am doing and at the same time get a good sex life back with my partner, most worryingly is the fact that I have bought anal toys and they have mysteriously ‘vanished’ and yet I have not been confronted about them. I do see myself as a fairly good-looking chap but as things get worse at home my need is just growing.
James – Leeds View full article »

Dear Jane,My problem is quite a simple one, I think, I would absolutely Love to see my husband dressed up like a Lap Dog but he simply will not do it, how do I get him to see that if he lets me put a beautiful studded collar around his neck and attach the lead and take him for walkies it would turn me on so much that the sex afterwards would be truly amazing!!! I don’t want to put him in a cage or anything (Yet) but surely a little give and take is what counts – Please Help!!!
Sadie – Manchester View full article »